demure

English

Etymology

From Middle English demure, demwre, of uncertain formation, but probably from Old French meur (Modern French mûr) from Latin mātūrus. The "de-" is "of", as in "of maturity".

Pronunciation

• (UK) IPA^(key): /dɪˈmjʊə(ɹ)/
• (US) IPA^(key): /dɪˈmjʊɹ/

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Distinguish from pronunciation of demur

• Rhymes: -ɜː(ɹ)
• Rhymes: -ʊə(ɹ)

Adjective

demure (comparative demurer, superlative demurest)

1. (usually of women) Quiet, modest, reserved, sober, or serious.

   She is a demure young lady.

   • 1881, William Black, The Beautiful Wretch:

     Nan was very much delighted in her demure way, and that delight showed itself in her face and in her clear bright eyes.

   • 2005, Maureen Dowd, Are Men Necessary?, →ISBN, page 311:

     I was coming back from the ladies' room when I saw her. She looked demure. Oval wire-rimmed glasses. A sky blue jacket buttoned over a long black-and-white flowered shirt.

   • 2014 January 21, Hermione Hoby, “Julia Roberts interview for August: Osage County – 'I might actually go to hell for this …'”, in The Daily Telegraph‎:

     [H]owever hard she pushed the tough-talkin' shtick, she remained doe-eyed, glowing and somehow unassailably demure.

   • 2021 June 30, Motoko Rich, Hikari Hida, “Expected to Be Demure, Japan’s Girls Face Steep Hurdles to Athletic Dreams”, in The New York Times‎, →ISSN:

     And in their daily lives, girls and women are pushed to conform to fairly narrow templates of behavior as demure or delicate.

2. Affectedly modest, decorous, or serious; making a show of gravity.
   • c. 1824, Mary Russell Mitford, Walks in the Country:

     Miss Lizzy, I have no doubt, would be as demure and coquettish, as if ten winters more had gone over her head.

Derived terms

• as demure as a whore at a christening
• demurely
• demureness

Translations

Verb

demure (third-person singular simple present demures, present participle demuring, simple past and past participle demured)

1. (obsolete) To look demurely.
   • c. 1606–1607, William Shakespeare, “The Tragedie of Anthonie and Cleopatra”, in Mr. William Shakespeares Comedies, Histories, & Tragedies  (First Folio), London: Isaac Iaggard, and Ed Blount, published 1623, →OCLC, , page 363, column 2, line 30:

     Your Wife Octavia, with her modeſt eyes, / […] ſhall acquire no Honour / Demuring vpon me:

Middle English

Etymology 1

From de- +‎ mure.

Alternative forms

• demewre, demeur, demuer, demur, demwre, dimuir

Pronunciation

• IPA^(key): /dɛːˈmiu̯r/

Adjective

demure

1. grave, serious, modest

Derived terms

• demurely

Descendants

• English: demure
• Scots: demure

References

• “dēmūr, adj.”, in MED Online, Ann Arbor, Mich.: University of Michigan, 2007.

Etymology 2

From Old French demore, demure.

Alternative forms

• demere, demoere, demore

Pronunciation

• IPA^(key): /dɛːˈmeːr/, /dɛːˈmiu̯r/, /dɛːˈmur/

Noun

demure

1. (rare) delay, waiting, stay

Related terms

• demuren

Descendants

• English: demur

References

• “dēmū̆re, n.”, in MED Online, Ann Arbor, Mich.: University of Michigan, 2007.

Etymology 3

Verb

demure

1. Alternative form of demuren