approach it with the right mindframe, the experience can be empowering, enlightening, and restorative for all involved. enlighteningly unenlightening...
en‧light‧en enlighten (third-person singular simple present enlightens, present participle enlightening, simple past and past participle enlightened) (transitive)...
From enlighten + -er. enlightener (plural enlighteners) One who, or that which, enlightens. 1831, L[etitia] E[lizabeth] L[andon], Romance and Reality...
From enlighten + -able. enlightenable (comparative more enlightenable, superlative most enlightenable) That can be enlightened. unenlightenable...
From un- + enlightening. unenlightening (comparative more unenlightening, superlative most unenlightening) Not enlightening...
From enlightening + -ly. enlighteningly (comparative more enlighteningly, superlative most enlighteningly) In an enlightening way. epiphanically...
aclaridor (feminine aclaridora, masculine plural aclaridors, feminine plural aclaridores) clarificatory, enlightening...