fellow feeling

• fellow-feeling

fellow feeling (usually uncountable, plural fellow feelings)

1. A sense of sympathy for, consideration of, or shared interests with one or more other human beings.
   • 1768, Mr. Yorick [pseudonym; Laurence Sterne], A Sentimental Journey through France and Italy, volume (please specify |volume=I or II), London: T. Becket and P. A. De Hondt, , →OCLC:

     But here my heart is wrung with pity and fellow feeling, when I reflect what miseries must have been their lot, and how bitterly so refined a people must have smarted, to have forced them upon the use of it.

   • 1817, Samuel Taylor Coleridge, chapter 2, in Biographia Literaria:

     [I]s the character and property of the man, who labours for our intellectual pleasures, less entitled to a share of our fellow feeling, than that of the wine-merchant or milliner?

   • 1851 June – 1852 April, Harriet Beecher Stowe, chapter XIX, in Uncle Tom’s Cabin; or, Life among the Lowly, volume II, Boston, Mass.: John P[unchard] Jewett & Company; Cleveland, Oh.: Jewett, Proctor & Worthington, published 20 March 1852, →OCLC:

     “Besides, I was always interfering in the details. Being myself one of the laziest of mortals, I had altogether too much fellow-feeling for the lazy; […]

   • 1857 April 1, Herman Melville, chapter 43, in The Confidence-Man: His Masquerade, New York, N.Y.: Dix, Edwards & Co., , →OCLC:

     "[H]ow kindly we reciprocate each other's little delicacies, don't we? What better proof, now, that we are kind, considerate fellows, with responsive fellow-feelings—eh, barber?"

   • 1871–1872, George Eliot [pseudonym; Mary Ann Evans], chapter XIV, in Middlemarch , volume (please specify |volume=I to IV), Edinburgh, London: William Blackwood and Sons, →OCLC, book II:

     “Well, I couldn’t do my duty as a clergyman, any more than you could do yours as a governess. You ought to have a little fellow-feeling there, Mary.”

   • 1894 December – 1895 November, Thomas Hardy, Jude the Obscure, 1st American edition, New York, N.Y.: Harper & Brothers, , published 1896, →OCLC:

     A magic thread of fellow-feeling united his own life with theirs.

   • 1917, John Galsworthy, chapter 15, in Beyond:

     But, mixed with her rage, a sort of unwilling compassion and fellow feeling kept rising for that girl, that silly, sugar-plum girl, brought to such a pass by—her husband.

   • 2002 February 16, Robert Sullivan, “Week One: A Warm Winter Olympics”, in Time:

     Even when the wind blew cold, the fine sportsmanship and fellow feeling that is traditional to the Winter Games, lifted last week to an absurd height by the love-everybody snowboarders, the new let's do-right IOC and the continuing sympathy for the U. S. of A., was lovely to see — and to join.

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